Bonnie Cetinkaya

Bonnie Cetinkaya’s Journey to Independence

Picture of Bonnie Cetinkaya and her son.

Bonnie Cetinkaya's life story is a testament to the extraordinary power of human resilience and the transformative impact of community support. Her journey from isolation to independence demonstrates that even in our darkest moments, the seeds of strength are already within us, waiting for the right conditions to flourish.

For twenty years, Bonnie lived in circumstances that would break many spirits. Trapped in an abusive marriage, she was systematically denied the fundamental building blocks of independence—education, employment, and financial autonomy. Under the guise of strict religious adherence, her world grew smaller each day. When she courageously reached out for help, she was met not with support, but with advice to simply endure. She emerged from those two decades with no degree, no work history, and no financial resources—but with something far more valuable: an unbreakable determination to create a different life.

The move to Texas in 2018 marked the beginning of Bonnie's quiet revolution. Far from family and friends, she began making choices that would reshape her future. Opening her own bank account became an act of defiance. Enrolling in online classes became a declaration of her worth. Each new connection she made became a thread in the safety net she was weaving for herself. As her confidence blossomed, the darkness at home intensified—a cruel reminder that growth often comes with a price.

When her husband abandoned the family in 2022, leaving her with two sons and no income, Bonnie faced a crossroads that would define her character. Rather than surrender to despair, she chose action. She delivered groceries with her youngest son beside her, transforming necessity into opportunity. While others slept, she studied, building her skills one late night at a time. She crafted a professional presence from nothing, earning certifications that proved her capabilities to a world that had long ignored her potential.

Her volunteer work became a bridge to purpose. By helping other women navigate their own difficult transitions, Bonnie discovered leadership qualities that years of suppression could not extinguish. This service led to a pivotal role as Director of Professional Development at DFW ATW, where she helped secure over 1.5 million dollars in funding—all while working evenings and weekends around her other responsibilities.

The milestone moment came in 2023 when Bonnie landed her first full-time position as a Global Technical Project Manager and Scrum Master at a tech company. It was validation of everything she had worked toward—proof that her unconventional path had led to genuine expertise. Though a layoff in March 2025 tested her resolve once again, it could not diminish what she had already proven to herself and the world.

Today, Bonnie continues to navigate a challenging job market that too often prioritizes credentials over capability. Despite reaching final interview rounds repeatedly, she faces the frustrating reality of being overlooked for positions where her two decades of nonprofit experience, program leadership, team management, and partnership building make her exceptionally qualified. Yet she persists, supporting her two sons while maintaining unwavering faith in her eventual breakthrough.

"You Helped Us Feel Seen": A Thank You to Our Community

From the very first visit, I was treated with kindness and respect. They let me choose the food that works best for my family. They ask how the job search is going. They help connect people to resources like optical care, support with car repairs, and they make holidays special with gift cards and beautiful presents for the children. Even after a devastating fire, the ladies still showed up and continued serving the community with the same love and care. That kind of heart is rare. And it meant everything to us.

To the donors, your support means so much. You’ve helped me feel like I wasn’t invisible. You’ve helped my sons feel seen and cared for. You gave us dignity when we had none left. When we are back on our feet, we will be the ones showing up for others the way you showed up for us. Love from our family to yours.

Bonnie